Updated: Aug 16, 2021
What’s the real reason you can’t accomplish your goals? How honest are you being with yourself? When is the last time you looked in the mirror and felt confident and secure about what you saw?
Qutie’s Connect: Imagine if you could actually be that person who you are “pretending“ to be.
Instead of pretending to not give a f*ck, what if you really, truly, honestly did not give one single f*ck. Even if only for a short period of time... how did it make you feel?
Powerful? Weak? Lonely? Did you lose faith a little? Did you want to give up and go back to your ”comfort zone”? Did you become so strong that you don’t even recognize yourself anymore? Are you just angry now?
*Transition is never an easy task because you are constantly facing the unknown. It’s ok to express “unfair” feelings in times of anger because ... well that’s what you know how to do. (Let’s try something different!)🦋
KNOWING YOUR PERSON
If you are trying to build healthy relationships with toxic people it will never work. Healed people bond with other healed humans who aren’t looking for validation and gratification, but simply being a friend. *if you don’t know your people you can stunt your transition. You must know who is who. Chess not Checkers.✅
Have your goal in mind, before you open your mouth 👌
If you know your intentions are not pure, learn how to EXIT beforeeee you reach YOUR peak. (notice: you & your) Let's start learning how to take accountability for oursleves and why we are in the position that we are in? Because of YOU! Nobody else.
Once you take time to asses your emotions you can go back and figure it out. Be willing enough to go back and make necessary changes for your mental health and well being. Have faith and trust yourself to know that what youre feeling is real and how you express that matters.
Pay it Forward
“Treat people the way you want to be treated”
For my ”hurt people” out there… giving love is hard because we say that we don’t know what love is. Think of it this way 🙌🏾 Love is that emotion you are craving and looking for in other people….. 👻
That void that you are looking to fill… you must go out and fill it up with people, things, and experiences. How positive those experiences are is up to you! Different isn’t supposed to be fun. You’re transitioning, learning new things, and changing perspectives. You should feel out of place. Get up and make those necessary changes!
You want a different world… change yourself. Anything that you want to change around you starts IN you! Believe that the life you want is possible and you will start doing things that align with your goals. It won’t happen overnight or as fast as we wish, but that is what faith is for. Trusting yourself and every move you make. 🦋
”Where Transition Begins”