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Know your worth, before you make demands!

Take the love you've always imagined receiving and then give it to yourself. Not just things and objects, but love. Date night, intimacy, quality time, connecting and grounding. Give yourself that special attention and get to know yourself. When you tell somebody what you "need", a real partner will see beyond the materials wants, but the depths of your soul needs. Giving you uplifting emotions that you may have never felt before, filling you with genuine support and welcoming affection.

Each relationship is different because we are different. Friend relationships, work relationships, school relationships, social media relationships, exc.... and they all require something different.

Each relationship should be feeding you in such a way that when you stand back you have a full plate of perspectives. You have relationships for fun, play, parties, brunch, office work, kids, family.... and each bond is different.

The energy you are requesting from each person requires a purpose. In order for me to have a friend in my immediate circle we must:

1.) Have positive conversations daily.

2.) Must be able to vent freely and openly.

3.)Must agree to disagree and express ourselves comfortably.

If I can't do those things with you daily you aren't someone I will speak to often. I'll speak to you for another purpose.

Everything is not for everybody, that's ok. Find a secure immediate circle who can fulfill your needs. If you can not find it we may have to do an "environment check."


"Environment Check"

Are you looking for positive upbeat people in a depressing low vibrational enviornment? Are you forcing people who don't have similar goals as you to change? Are you changing yourself to be around the energies that you are seeking? Is there anything that you could do different to help push yourself into uncomfortable stages in light of discovering a new normal?


I wouldn't be able to dream like I do without having other people who can believe in a greater future. I couldn't see myself for who I truly am without seeking genuine relationships. I had to change myself and other habits in order to become that person I wanted to be. 🦋

Change is good! Change is not "being fake", or "selling out." You're not crazy for wanting a different outcome for yourself. You should not have to question everyone who moves around you. Coming from a lifestyle where trust is not given nor seen to often, it becomes foreign. "Nice people just don't exist everyday," is the context that arise, when in reality you are just in an area where there are not many people who have many things to be happy about. (changing perspective.)


Be ok with standing out and being different. Be ok with standing up for yourself and be ok with knowing you want and deserve more. Empower yourself enough to know that you create your heaven on earth. Your decisions, your plans, your goals, all lead you to where you belong.


No matter what happens in this world be observant and be a great person.


On the other end I discovered amazing people. The more boundaries I created the better my relationships got. I knew how to treat people and they knew how to treat me.

Change is good! Change is not "being fake", or "selling out." You're not crazy for wanting a different outcome for yourself. You should not have to question everyone who moves around you. Coming from a lifestyle where trust is not given nor seen to often, it becomes foreign. "Nice people just don't exist everyday," is the context that arise, when in reality you are just in an area where there are not many people who have many things to be happy about. (changing perspective and accountability)

xoxo_qyerra🦋


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